Negative self-talk and negative affirmation can keep you anchored in old thought patterns and identities. My advice for everyone is to carefully analyze the old stories that you choose to perpetually tell, for these are really life-long meditations. If those stories are negative or not supportive of the vision you have for your future self, it would be wise to quit telling …those stories completely. Instead, develop new stories from new positive experiences and relationships — the experiences of your emerging new self! – Bryant McGill